Friday, June 22, 2007
Go to the bathroom now, and we'll get ice cream after we go to the store.
Do your homework, and I'll buy you a new coat.
Bring a friend to Backyard Bible Club, and we will give you TWO tickets.
Ok. Maybe not that one.
But that is what we have been faced with this week.
Every other year, our Director decides that we are going to have these "outreach" BYBC. This is when 8-10 church member families open their homes for about an hour and a half and two people come in to "witness" to these kids.
Our BYBC is WAY over my kids' heads.
But one thing they DO understand: the fun festival held on Saturday where the kids will be able to "spend" their tickets on bounce houses and water balloons and face painting.
They receive one ticket for showing up, and one ticket for saying their Bible verse. That is all fine and dandy.
But they receive TWO tickets if they bring friends.
I have a problem with this.
Why two? Why not one?
So when the Queen asked if she could bring Chicken Nugget girl, I let it slide. Then she asked again the following day. I let it slide. She asked again yesterday, and I asked her to look deep in her heart to see WHY she wanted to invite Chicken Nugget girl.
She honestly said "well, because I get two tickets for bringing her."
Really. Do we WANT to teach our kids that there is a monetary reward system for the eternal salvation of some child's soul? Bring your friends, save them from Satan, and you'll get two more chances in the bounce house.
I don't mind asking someone to Sunday school. I don't mind asking someone to church. I DO mind "paying" a kid for something that they should want to do out of the goodness of their heart.
Aren't we just teaching our kids that they should look for their own financial gain when they "help" someone out?
or maybe I am being a bitty of a mother. But I will purchase these tickets to give my kids more time in the bounce house, thanks.
I'm a mom of three peeps ... Queen Bee, The Door Man, and the Chandelier Monkey, and wife to Ace, the Helpful Hardware Man. I created this space to get away from the people known as my inlaws, and because life with three kids and a hubby is all Unexplored Territory.
Condescending phone calls